Read Melvin's blog some time back and I found this entry rather interesting ...

Qouted From Melvin's Blog :

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Perhaps, Love has always been an intricate subject. Are we being understanding to see through its complexity?

(Disclaimer: Today's blog entry is solely on the persona's inspiration. It is not meant to be directed to anyone else)

A relationship should never be taken lightly. This is the basis and the minimum pre-requisite, that both parties should partake before getting into a relationship.

As what many of us said, "No one is right or wrong in a relationship." Perhaps, we should learn to accept the unprecedented fact with grace, when things have actually turned into a bitter end. I have learnt the harsh fact that being in a relationship, requires ample of responsibilities. I see the point, and have it made note to it. Such infusing thoughts, serves as a constant reminder in reminding us on the reasons, why we are together.

In the ultimate end, we grew to learn what we want eventually. And playing the role of a supportive love one, should accede and not hoarding or constantly being taunted by the cruel fact that, one has been ditch. Separation may serves as a good alternative for the couple to end off futurist disagreements and discontentments.

But, at times, we should learn to withdraw back (in a gracious manner), when we know things are not getting right. Our heart's change. Feelings for one another changed gradually and unexpectedly. It takes a long-term committment for both parties to stay binded for life. And, that imaginary binding tread is called Love.

Love is such a complicating issue. There are so many kinds of love. And each relationship, has a different story to tell. It is a shared story weaved between the couples.

As for me, I chose to take things easily and letting it go, if I see there is a need to. It is not a matter of childishness or a lip-serviced maturity. It is a perception of every individual. There is always a reason... or perhaps a resonating reason, in which only myself, is able to fully comprehend. Frankly speaking, I don't really see a point in holding on a relationship, when there is no future. Instead of rattling and clinging onto a withering relationship, why don't we make a point in seeing it grow in a different angle (note: separation).

There are some things in which I find it real hard to explain. The complexity of love and the depth of it is just so intricate. But, one thing for sure is I am fully aware with what I want and I make a special effort in taking a bigger leap across, to venture another realm of love.

You don't need words to express friendship. You don't need a relationship to be in love. Love is not transactionary and this theory applies to friendship as well. Instead, we should embrace people or even friends with our open arms. Why are we being choosy with the people we should or should not know? Nobody enjoys being branded or categorized into our pro-created categories for friends, ie "Good friends" or "The untouchables". You don't need to do something to recipriocate the value of friendship. Because, the value of friendship can never ever be measured with any monetary means.

Life is not just revolving around relationship. Have we failed to see the essential values of friends and their providences' presence. Much of our inner healing should be delicated to our physical space. Yes, ourselves. Our friends can help and aid us to a certain extent. The real challenge in life is about changing and coming out stronger by our own means. And that is the reason why God created us!

"Friends are friends forever, if the Lord's the Lord of them"

Without the end of one's relationship, one wouldn't have undermine and learn to take a greater leap into the society. As for me, I know my friends... my classmates... my newly-made friends.. my buddies will always be there for me. I knew they will. No qualms about them. And that is what I called a platonic relationship!

Sweet friends like these... are always hard to come by. Well, I have found you!



"And a friend will not say never'
cause the welcome will not end
Though it's hard to let you go
In the father's hands we know
That a lifetime's not too long to live as friends."

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Your entry is chim but I love it !!!